bestfriend? - The Red Jumpsuit Alliance2024-03-29T15:39:57Zhttp://redjumpsuitalliance.ning.com/forum/topics/bestfriend-1?commentId=1523676%3AComment%3A237666&feed=yes&xn_auth=noi didnt have a best-friend un…tag:redjumpsuitalliance.ning.com,2010-05-28:1523676:Comment:2382722010-05-28T02:54:56.127Zhotrodjesshttp://redjumpsuitalliance.ning.com/profile/hotrodjess
i didnt have a best-friend until i was 18. i met her during my college orientation and we just happened to hit it off
i didnt have a best-friend until i was 18. i met her during my college orientation and we just happened to hit it off yes, as time goes on people c…tag:redjumpsuitalliance.ning.com,2010-05-27:1523676:Comment:2379952010-05-27T15:54:37.526Znaomi.http://redjumpsuitalliance.ning.com/profile/Baushi
yes, as time goes on people change.. that's kinda the point to life. if you stay the same all of the time it just gets boring. you learn from different experiences, and you adapt to your surroundings how you best see fit.<br />
if any of your friends are best friend material they won't change in a bad way, but you can't expect them to stay the same.<br />
it seems like you're more driven at the idea of having a girl best friend than you are a guy best friend, right? if so, you might just be setting…
yes, as time goes on people change.. that's kinda the point to life. if you stay the same all of the time it just gets boring. you learn from different experiences, and you adapt to your surroundings how you best see fit.<br />
if any of your friends are best friend material they won't change in a bad way, but you can't expect them to stay the same.<br />
it seems like you're more driven at the idea of having a girl best friend than you are a guy best friend, right? if so, you might just be setting yourself up for failure coz even though i have a few girl best friends now, i had guy best friends for a reallyyy long time when i was young .. it might seem really weird, but you can't be picky when picking a best friend.. they're kinda like guardian angels, you never know who they are, but they'll always be there for you.<br />
how you get to the point where you can consider yourselves best friends is always different.. with my best friend from my school, it was about half a year of give and take of personal information until we felt like we could trust each other, and hanging out more and more on the side. with my current best friend, we're like two complete opposites. she's really smart, and i'm really ... not, but we just kinda clicked. how we got here, i can't honestly tell you.. but all i can really suggest is follow your heart. there's probably someone already in your life that you could be best friends with, you just don't realize it yet. (: pretty nice advice , !
ive be…tag:redjumpsuitalliance.ning.com,2010-05-27:1523676:Comment:2378322010-05-27T04:12:33.566ZKimberly Brauliohttp://redjumpsuitalliance.ning.com/profile/KimberlyBraulio
pretty nice advice , !<br />
ive been close to a guy too , he's a campus hearthrob and ,, he's actually my crush . he opens a lot about himself but ive never told him some deep things about myself ..<br />
actually , im thinking that maybe if we didn't lost our communication he's already my bestfriend right now , but y'know .. as time goes by , people change ..<br />
and i hope if i find my bestfriend , she wont change , cause thats what im scared of ..
pretty nice advice , !<br />
ive been close to a guy too , he's a campus hearthrob and ,, he's actually my crush . he opens a lot about himself but ive never told him some deep things about myself ..<br />
actually , im thinking that maybe if we didn't lost our communication he's already my bestfriend right now , but y'know .. as time goes by , people change ..<br />
and i hope if i find my bestfriend , she wont change , cause thats what im scared of .. yeah , well im really hoping…tag:redjumpsuitalliance.ning.com,2010-05-27:1523676:Comment:2378312010-05-27T04:07:03.038ZKimberly Brauliohttp://redjumpsuitalliance.ning.com/profile/KimberlyBraulio
yeah , well im really hoping i could find one so i wont talk alone in my room anymore , and , oh , i have only one bestfriend , my room .... :D my room knows everything about me (:
yeah , well im really hoping i could find one so i wont talk alone in my room anymore , and , oh , i have only one bestfriend , my room .... :D my room knows everything about me (: u serious lulu????tag:redjumpsuitalliance.ning.com,2010-05-27:1523676:Comment:2378302010-05-27T04:04:21.570ZKimberly Brauliohttp://redjumpsuitalliance.ning.com/profile/KimberlyBraulio
u serious lulu????
u serious lulu???? Yeah, I know what you mean ab…tag:redjumpsuitalliance.ning.com,2010-05-26:1523676:Comment:2377312010-05-26T18:38:38.663ZAbbieNormalhttp://redjumpsuitalliance.ning.com/profile/AbbieSingleton
Yeah, I know what you mean about wanting to have a best friend to just share everything with. For me, I'm happy sharing bits and pieces of myself with all my close friends. None of them know everything, but together they probably know everything about me. For me, I'm content with having a group of friends like that.<br />
And like Naomi said below, you can't really push something like best friendship to happen. It just kinda has to evolve on its own like a relationship.
Yeah, I know what you mean about wanting to have a best friend to just share everything with. For me, I'm happy sharing bits and pieces of myself with all my close friends. None of them know everything, but together they probably know everything about me. For me, I'm content with having a group of friends like that.<br />
And like Naomi said below, you can't really push something like best friendship to happen. It just kinda has to evolve on its own like a relationship. i went about 2 years without…tag:redjumpsuitalliance.ning.com,2010-05-26:1523676:Comment:2377262010-05-26T16:10:56.774Znaomi.http://redjumpsuitalliance.ning.com/profile/Baushi
i went about 2 years without having a best friend.. it comes and goes, and really just depends on the strength of the friendships you already have.<br />
for the first time since i was little i have a guy best friend, and that's pretty huge for me coz most guys can't go ten seconds without being an asshole, but for some reason this guy is really great.. he puts up with all of the gay jokes, and he's there when i need someone to listen to me.<br />
you're still really young.. you have the rest of your life…
i went about 2 years without having a best friend.. it comes and goes, and really just depends on the strength of the friendships you already have.<br />
for the first time since i was little i have a guy best friend, and that's pretty huge for me coz most guys can't go ten seconds without being an asshole, but for some reason this guy is really great.. he puts up with all of the gay jokes, and he's there when i need someone to listen to me.<br />
you're still really young.. you have the rest of your life to find a best friend. it's kinda like a relationship too. you just can't rush it. if things were meant to happen, they'll come naturally. the more you think about not having a best friend, the more you're gonna push your friends to get there, and that will most likely make them freak out.<br />
all i can really suggest is try making connections with a couple of your friends.. and then as time passes, build on those connections, and hopefully you'll eventually make it. (: I'll be your bfffl ^^tag:redjumpsuitalliance.ning.com,2010-05-26:1523676:Comment:2377222010-05-26T16:07:06.142ZLulu(is lost in her head)http://redjumpsuitalliance.ning.com/profile/Lulu458
I'll be your bfffl ^^
I'll be your bfffl ^^ aw! that was cool , hope i ha…tag:redjumpsuitalliance.ning.com,2010-05-26:1523676:Comment:2376812010-05-26T12:10:50.186ZKimberly Brauliohttp://redjumpsuitalliance.ning.com/profile/KimberlyBraulio
aw! that was cool , hope i have one , i envy u .. :/
aw! that was cool , hope i have one , i envy u .. :/ i have a friend who 'ive know…tag:redjumpsuitalliance.ning.com,2010-05-26:1523676:Comment:2376662010-05-26T09:13:38.213Zkimmyhttp://redjumpsuitalliance.ning.com/profile/kimmy94
i have a friend who 'ive known my entire life and we we're like family. we talk to each other about anything and everything and we've never once had a fight. my life wouldn't be the same without her. i consider her my best friend and i think we'll be friends for life.
i have a friend who 'ive known my entire life and we we're like family. we talk to each other about anything and everything and we've never once had a fight. my life wouldn't be the same without her. i consider her my best friend and i think we'll be friends for life.